Sexy poses, he wants me to take pictures and do sexy poses. I always tell him that I don't know what to do, but that's just shy of my case. This is one of the few things that we request from each other to keep our long distance relationship perky. He stands in front of the camera and gives me his gangster shots, him puckering his lips for a kiss, and oh yeah, one of him holding up his boxers for me to see. And while I'm quite happy seeing my handsome man in such amusing posture, he prefers that I exclusively take sexy photos. He wants one that will make him "Happy". Well, that would be much easier if I were, say... 120 lbs, and I didn't have those different length short-short tan lines from jogging in the afternoon sun (to become sexier for him). It's not that I don't have confidence in my body, I think I'm the hottest thing when I get in front of that camera, but when I review the pictures... er??? Occasionally a few of them would turn out great, it's just frustrating since he always wants more and I don't know what else would be flattering since I'm not thin, and I'm suppose to be posing in undies, doing the sex appeal. I'm not fat either though!!! just thought I'd throw that in, hahah.
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well perhaps you could buy some nice lingerie? Any girl looks at least decent in victoria's secret stuff. But I mean if he likes you for you, then not being a super model is the least of your worries, right? I mean at least he wants to look at you and not other girls!
Yeah, I did that kind of thing for an ex a couple of times. Boosting his military morale. And you don't need VS lingerie to do it either. Kohls or Target work just fine! lol But I know what you mean with the whole "what do I do now?" question. Except for, unlike you, when I get in front of the camera I don't think I'm the hottest thing around even though I am thin. I think I would die if anyone else saw those pictures haha
You could try asking if you could slow down a bit because you're running out of ideas at the moment and will send him more when you think of something. That's what I've done in the past. I'm with littlebitty8907, I also don't feel all that hot in ront of the camera despite how thin I am. I need a little extra "weight" (if you know what I mean).
But just let him know you're fresh out of ideas and would like the time till you can figure out what else you can do.
I've done some stuff for my boyfriend, & I feel okay with it since we're both photographers & he makes it look artistic & classy, haha.
Ask him what he wants you to do for him! You won't know what to do til you ask.